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Shahid Kapoor on Kabir Singh: Jab we fret about heartbreaks

In his latest film, Kabir Singh, Shahid Kapoor plays a surgeon who descends into self-destruction after a heartbreak

Mumbai: Shahid Kapoor says he has gone through his share of “intense self-destruction” after a heartbreak and one way of overcoming negative emotions for him was to channel them into his performances.

In his latest film Singh, Shahid plays a surgeon who descends into self-destruction after a heartbreak. “I’ve had my very intense, self-destructive, heartbreak, angsty moments, where I’ve not been in control,” Shahid said.

Describing Kabir Singh as a phase in everyone’s life, the actor says some people are “very explosive about how they’re feeling” while others keep it within. But that feeling of falling apart, of self-destruction for not being able to deal with loss… Only from great love can come great anger. He is a phase in everyone’s life and that how I connected with the character.”

Shahid says as an actor, he is required to channel negative emotions, including heartbreak.

“You have to channelise (sic) all kinds of negative emotions and turn them into positive, otherwise they can take you down, heartbreak being one of them. You’ve to learn to channelise (sic) these energies, if you can’t, you become Singh!”

The Haider actor says everybody breaks at some point but it’s one’s call to choose that to “define that moment as your permanent reality.”

“The worst thing to do is to delve in self-pity because it keeps you in a place way longer than you need to be. The first thing I do is to try and run away from it. I don’t like to indulge in self-pity, it’s very dangerous.”

While the 38-year- has often played dark characters, Singh is an obviously flawed man, the one with anger and territorial issues. When asked how does he approach a character like him, Shahid says, “by not judging him”.

“He’s real. He’s not trying to fake anything. We do that ourselves also, telling ourselves we are bad in our low phase. That doesn’t help because you’re giving yourself a wrong message. You need to tell yourself that you’re a nice person and will come out of this bad phase and find yourself,” Shahid says.

Humanising flawed characters can be tricky and the actor says he doesn’t need to do that. “They are real, I need to just represent them. Sometimes reality is a bit too real. In Haider and Udta Punjab, we’re in dark places, Singh isn’t at all. He’s an edgy character.

“As a subject matter in totality, it’s a happy film. It’s romantic and it has its dark parts but obviously what will attract you in those promos are these edgy scenes but the film has a lot more going for it,” the actor says.

Drawing a parallel with his drug addict rapper Tommy Singh in Udta Punjab, Shahid says, Singh’s reasons to do things aren’t selfish.

“I have to find why he’s doing what he is doing otherwise I have no understanding of the character I’m doing. Tommy Singh is an empty guy who is self-obsessed. He’s only thinking about himself and realises later that he needs to do something for someone else,” Shahid says.

is the opposite. He loves so purely that he actually destroys himself in that emotion, becomes self-destructive,” the actor adds.

A remake of the Telugu hit Arjun Reddy, Singh is directed by Sandeep Reddy Vanga. Co-starring Kiara Advani, the film is set to release on 21 June.


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